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In this very brief introductory guide to male chastity I want to talk about some of the most immediate and critical points about the lifestyle from the perspective of couples new to it.I'm doing this now because when I first started along this journey, I frequently found I was lost, confused, bewildered and even a bit frightened by the mass of differing, contradictory, and, in my opinion, damaging information available.So in this brief Guide, I'll simply go over the most important points but still talk about them in sufficient depth to get you started.Start at the BeginningBefore we start, it's important to grasp the fact that having a husband in chastity is not new, not "bad", and is certainly nothing for you to fret over, whether you're a husband who's coming to terms with his desires (and maybe even fighting with them), or a woman whose man has confessed his interest in male chastity to you and you're looking for information on the subject.First, let's think about what we actually mean when we talk about chastity. In everyday life we tend to treat chastity and celibacy as being the same. For our .. more»

In this rather brief guide to male chastity I want to cover some of the most pressing and critical issues about the lifestyle from the position of couples just getting started with it. The reason I want to do this now is when I took my first steps on this path, I frequently found I was lost, confused, puzzled and even a bit frightened by the mass of differing, contradictory, and, in my opinion, harmful information you're likely to come across. So in this brief Guide, I'll just summarise the most important points but cover them in sufficient detail to get you started. Begin at the Beginning Before we start, it's important to understand having a chastity husband is nothing new, not "bad" and is certainly nothing for you to be fret over, whether you're a man who's coming to terms with his needs (and maybe even fighting with them), or a wife whose husband has revealed his need for male chastity to you and you're seeking advice. First, let's look at what we usually mean when we discuss chastity. In everyday life we generally treat chastity and celibacy as being the same. For our purposes, though, .. more»